The Numbers Game
Geplaatst op 07-05-2026
Categorie: Lifestyle
Without continual growth and progress, such words as improvement, achievement, and success have no meaning. -Benjamin Franklin
Do you know your probability of success when approaching a girl? To put it another way, what percentage of girls you approach with the intention of banging do you actually bang? If your goal is to rack up a lot of notches then you need to make sure your odds of banging are optimized. You can break down this probability into 3 components.
bang probability= number probability x date probability x sex probability
The probability that you bang a girl is equal to the probability that you get her number, given that you’ve already approached her, multiplied by the probability that she agrees to go out with you, given that she’s already given you her number, multiplied by the probability that you bang her, given that she’s already agreed to go out with you. Girls who come on to you and one night stands aren’t considered here.
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Each step in the chain is harder than the last. Girls will give out their numbers relatively easily, but put up a bigger barrier for going out on a date and an even bigger barrier to get laid. If you fail to get the number and the girl doesn’t have a boyfriend, then there is probably something fundamentally flawed in your game e.g. creepy, smelly, awkward, ugly. If you fail to get the date, you probably didn’t make the girl comfortable enough during your initial interaction. If you fail to get sex, your seduction skills are lacking.
I’ll use an example from my own life. When I first got hardcore into game, my numbers were as follows.
bang probability (Old School Kane) = 90% x 20% x 50% = 9%
As I improved and began getting better, my numbers improved.
bang probability (Mid School Kane) = 95% x 70% x 40% = 26.6%
Before I took an early retirement from the game, my numbers had changed yet again
bang probability (New School Kane) = 95% x 50% x 50% = 23.75%
You’ll notice a couple of things. One, I rarely ever failed to get the number. In the last year I was in the game, I can remember only 2 girls who didn’t give me their numbers and both of them had boyfriends. There is usually a way to get a number from those girls, and a whore girl who gives out her number to another man while she a boyfriend is usually DTF. I’ll let you make your own ethics judgment on that. Two, my date probability went down while my sex probability went up between the last two time points. My date probability went down because I started getting lazy about building comfort before asking the girls’ numbers. I had so many opportunities that I lost focus and stopped putting in the effort necessary to build good rapport. My sex probability went up because my seduction skills had improved. I was lucky to come into the game with decent seductions skills so it wasn’t hard for me to figure that part out. The probability would be even higher but at that point I had gotten into the habit of not taking girls on 2nd dates if they had been disappointing on the 1st date, even if I knew they would put out.
Think back through the girls you’ve approached recently. How do your numbers look? Where do you see an opportunity for improvement?